dynamic elf

ASSUMPTIONS I COULD STAND TO GET OVER
(an incomplete list)

1. I should just push through the pain. It'll be okay.
2. If I have a list of options, I should pick the one that's hardest for me, since that's bound to be the option that's most rewarding for everyone else.
3. I could do it all if I just cared enough.
4. It's probably my fault anyway.
5. It's probably your fault anyway.
6. You probably think it's my fault anyway. Grrrrr. Now I'm angry at you.
7. You're silently mad at me for something I did, or didn't do, and you're not telling me about it.
8. We are all still in middle school.
9. I know what you need better than you do.
10. I'm probably wrong about this, but...