dynamic elf

I'm still thinking about this comment and I don't have a lot to add to it still and I'm sorry. I'd just been thinking, hm, this is interesting: I need for her choice to be okay, but I also need for it to have been a choice, and because of the curious position of her husband it wasn't clear to me that it really was as much as it would be for other women, and I found that interesting. Ultimately, though, my feelings about the whole thing are so unresolved that I posted it without real comment. I'm sorry that me doing that stirred up some really rough things for you. :/